SY&SY

The Wedding of

Sihui & Shangjie

July 10, 2026 | Asian Art Museum, San Francisco

The Occasion

An Evening of Art & Romance

"Love is the greatest art of all." Celebrate with us at the Asian Art Museum, where the beauty of Eastern and Western traditions comes together in perfect harmony.

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We can't wait to celebrate with you.

Please let us know your plans by June 10, 2026.

July 10, 2026

Event Timeline

An evening in five chapters, unfolding slowly from golden hour into candlelight.

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Welcome Drinks

Chilled champagne and light hors d'oeuvres as guests arrive.

5:00 PM

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Wedding Ceremony

The exchange of vows and rings on the Terrace.

6:00 PM — 6:30 PM

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Cocktail Hour

Signature cocktails and mingling. Guests are welcome to tour the 2nd floor gallery.

6:30 PM — 8:00 PM

Reception

Grand Reception

Dinner, toasts, and first dances amidst the museum's masterpieces.

8:00 PM

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Dancing & Farewell

Dance the night away and send off the newlyweds.

10:00 PM Onwards

The Setting

The Asian Art Museum offers a breathtaking backdrop of art spanning 6,000 years, right in the heart of San Francisco's Civic Center.

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Getting There

Travel & Parking

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By BART

The Asian Art Museum is steps from Civic Center / UN Plaza BART Station.

  • Exit at the UN Plaza exit
  • Walk 2 minutes to 200 Larkin Street
  • The museum will be on your left
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Parking

Civic Center Garage is directly in front of the museum.

  • 355 McAllister Street
  • Open evenings and weekends
  • Short walk to museum entrance
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Rideshare

Uber and Lyft are great options.

  • Drop-off: 200 Larkin St entrance
  • Pick-up: Larkin St or McAllister St
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Flying In

Two airports with direct BART lines.

  • SFO — ~25 min / BART direct
  • OAK — ~35 min / BART direct

The Venue

Asian Art Museum
200 Larkin Street
San Francisco, CA 94102

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Thirteen Years

Our Story

A journey written slowly, across cities and years — from a sleepy airport morning to a little hand reaching for ours.

Summer 2013

A Sleepy Arrival

Washington, D.C. A 6 AM flight, eyes barely open, and a stranger waiting at the gate with quiet kindness. Shangjie was there — steady, patient, holding a welcome that would quietly outlast every sunrise since. Neither of us knew, in that pre-dawn hour, that the journey had already begun.

2018

Coast to Coast, One Heart

The country stretched itself out between us — one coast holding Shangjie, the other holding Sihui. Three hours apart on the clock, thousands of miles on the map, and somehow still the same conversation every night. Distance, it turned out, was simply another way to learn devotion.

May & November 2021

A Question, An Answer

In May, Shangjie asked the question in the most Shangjie way — tender, thoughtful, and entirely his own. On November 27th, under the promise of a new winter, we said I do, surrounded by the quiet joy of those who had watched us from the very beginning.

2023

Finally, The Same Sky

California called Sihui home — and after years of red-eye flights and goodbye hugs at airports, we woke up under the same roof, in the same city, for good. The long distance closed like a book with a very happy ending. The next chapter opened with morning coffee for two.

December 2024

Our Greatest Blessing

Nolan arrived — tiny, perfect, and utterly ours. In an instant, two became three, and the whole geometry of our love expanded to hold him. Every sleepless night, every first laugh, every small miracle: a reminder that this is the life we'd been building toward all along.

July 10, 2026

Thirteen Years, One Celebration

Thirteen years after that early morning in D.C., we gather the people we love beneath the marble halls of the Asian Art Museum — to toast the road behind us, and raise our glasses to every adventure still ahead. Thank you for being here. The story continues, and you are part of it.

"And so the adventure continues —
with two becoming three, and love making room for more."

Your Chapter in Our Story

When Did We Meet?

If you'd like, pick the year we first met and leave a little note.
It's just between you and the couple — everyone else will simply see a heart.

Join Our Celebration

Kindly Respond

Your presence would mean the world to us. Please RSVP by June 10, 2026.

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Friday, July 10, 2026 · 5:00 PM · Asian Art Museum, San Francisco

Will you be attending? *

Please list full names of all guests. If children are attending, please indicate ages so we can arrange meals and seating.

Which events will you attend? *

Lodging needed? (for friends outside the Bay Area)

Select the nights you need:

Before you go — visit the Story tab and mark the year we first met. Leave a little note, just between you and us. ♡

With Gratitude

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"Your presence at our wedding is the only present we need."

Truly — the greatest gift is simply having you beside us on this day, celebrating thirteen years of love and the beautiful family it has created. We are endlessly grateful you've chosen to share in this moment with us.

A Note for Our Chinese Tradition

In Chinese wedding tradition, 红包 (hóngbāo) — the red envelope — carries more than a gift. It carries 祝福 (zhùfú), a blessing: for harmony, prosperity, and a lifetime of love shared between the newlyweds.

For family and friends who partake in this beautiful custom and wish to bless our journey in this way, we've included the details below. Please know it is entirely optional — your love and presence already mean the world to us.

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Venmo

Sihui Yan

@Sihui-Yan

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从此执子之手,与子偕老。
— Hand in hand, we grow old together.

Visual Journal

Coming Soon

Our photo gallery is blooming — just like the garden before spring.

After the wedding, this space will hold the moments we share together on July 10th. Check back soon to view and contribute your favorite memories.